The Power of Words: Building Up or Tearing Down



The Power of Words: Building Up or Tearing Down

Our words hold immense power. They can inspire confidence, offer comfort, and bring hope—or they can wound, discourage, and destroy. As Matthew 12:35 (NCV) reminds us, "Good people have good things in their hearts, and so they say good things. But evil people have evil in their hearts, so they say evil things." What we speak is a reflection of what we carry within us.

Words as Tools for Love and Encouragement

Parents, employers, friends, spouses, and children—all of us shape the world around us with our words. Every sentence we utter acts as a brick to build with or a bulldozer to destroy. If we wish to encourage and uplift, we must consciously choose words that empower instead of harm.

Consider the way affirmation changes lives. A child told they are capable grows with confidence. A friend reminded of their worth finds strength. A colleague praised for their skills gains motivation. Words are not just sounds; they are seeds carrying the potential for growth or decay.

The Ripple Effect of Spoken Words

Like seeds, words plant ideas and emotions in the hearts of those who hear them. A single kind word may spark courage in someone’s spirit, while a careless remark may linger, causing lasting wounds. Choosing to speak with kindness means sowing a good harvest—not just in our own lives, but in the lives of those around us.

Practical Ways to Use Words for Good:

1.    Pause before speaking – Consider whether your words will build up or break down.

2.    Speak life over others – Offer encouragement instead of criticism.

3.    Apologize for hurtful words – Healing often begins with a sincere apology.

4.    Use words to inspire – Share hope, wisdom, and kindness daily.

A Prayer for Our Words

In moments of doubt, we can ask for guidance:
"Lord, put the right words in my mouth today."
May our speech reflect love, patience, and wisdom. May our words be a source of healing, strength, and truth—because what we say shapes the world around us.

 

 

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